nathanm
Eats Squid
so my wife until recently has been working 4 days a week. She recently left my 5 y.o daughter and I for 6 weeks to work interstate (she applied and fought to get the posting, not forced to go), supposedly to "further her career". I begrudgingly (sp?) agree on the condition when she returns, she can go back to work fulltime and I'll work part time and care for our daughter the other days.
So 5 weeks after she returns we get into a fight, starts off because I don't do enough housework but finally tells the truth. Turns out she feels guilty about working 5 days a week as she thinks she's missing out on time with our daughter. So I point out the obvious that it wasn't an issue to leave her for 6 whole weeks straight. And you can guess what a complete asshole I am now.
yes it was hurtful too her, but it was also the straight truth.
Am I a complete asshat or do I have a valid point?
So 5 weeks after she returns we get into a fight, starts off because I don't do enough housework but finally tells the truth. Turns out she feels guilty about working 5 days a week as she thinks she's missing out on time with our daughter. So I point out the obvious that it wasn't an issue to leave her for 6 whole weeks straight. And you can guess what a complete asshole I am now.
yes it was hurtful too her, but it was also the straight truth.
Am I a complete asshat or do I have a valid point?