I do stereotype people until they have proven they are not the stereotype. Should i be ashamed of this attitude?
No, I don't think so. Humans categorise everything, that's part of the reason racism and prejudice exists everywhere, its the consequence of something we all do (and of some lingering pseudo-scientific study of 'savages' and application of evolutionary theory by colonialists). There are many stereotypes, for example:
- Aboriginals are dole-bludgers
- Jews are miserly.
- Black people are violent.
- White people are racist.
- Indians are scammers.
- Australians are dumb, drunk and racist.
Without broad stereotypes, we wouldn't be able to make sense of the world around us, there'd be too much information to process. And wherever there are 2 or more groups of people, they will always try and differentiate themselves from one another, particularly if they aren't really that different to the outside observer. For example, Swedish and Norwegian are very similar languages, and they are largely mutually intelligible, but ask any Swede if they are the same and they'll completely deny it, Norwegian is totally different and they'll probably say it sounds terrible as well. Differences only matter if they are socially relevant and they become socially relevant because they tend to unsettle ideas about identity and authenticity of existence of particular groups of people. So I think stereotyping (they are like this, but we are not like that) has a lot to do with maintaining a stable sense of group and individual identity, and being more efficient in interacting with unfamiliar people.
I think the problem with Australia's racism, is that its closely tied with a sense of nationalism and identity. Its not just about skin colour or the belief that particular people are inferior to others. I'd argue that racism for racism's sake is pretty scarce these days, the greater issue is that people have associated particular 'races' as being opposed to their sense of national identity and therefore see others as a threat to their identity, culture, authenticity and heritage. If you can make the differences less socially relevant and remove the link between being white = being Australian, I think the 'Australians are racist' stereotype would largely fade away.
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