Hi bonss,
I'm not a woman, but there are a few hanging about on the LDTR club forum. You may find some riding buds there?
Alternative, if you don't mind hanging out with the boys, the club rides socially almost every Tuesday night, everyone's welcome, men, women, novice and guns.
Google Lysterfield Dustrict Trail Riders for the club website and forum link.
Cheers, Tone. (Numbnuts on the LDTR forum).