Excellent thread. I'm reminiscing.
Coming from a road touring background nearly 30 years ago when I was a lad, I haven't done much off-road of late. Numerous Polaris events got things fairly organised, but I do enjoy a little bit of comfort in my old age, so I don't bean count so much these days..
This is a bag I used (the Palm IV) on the last 2 Polaris' before the event's demise. It's incredible how small they pack down.
http://www.roman.com.au/website17.a...&parentid=1573&sideparent=1580&midparent=1683
A thermarest is a given - there're plenty of styles and weights to choose from these days. Pillow, I just wrap spare clothes into a vague pillow shape. I'm usually so shagged after a day lugging gear up hill down dale that I don't notice what's under my head.
Orikasa plate/bowl and cup, Sea to Summit plastic cutlery, MSR choofer if I'm with its owner, or a small Trangia by myself. Sierra Designs Electron 2 (now superseded), fly only with "footprint" to hook it onto. OK if there are no bugs expected. Roomy for 2 plus gear.
As I'm old school, I prefer a rack with small panniers - Wilderness Equipment canvas. Heavy, but bullet and waterproof. I've used the Old Man Mountain Sherpa rack on my dually to good effect. Strong, rattle-free, solid.
http://www.oldmanmountain.com/Pages/RackPages/RackGalleries/Pages/sherpaRear_gallery.htm
I know a couple of people who swear by food dehydrators. Make up incredible tasty meals, dehydrate and take on the trails in zip-lock bags. Add water and heat at destination. Far cheaper than the freeze dried bags from outdoor shops (although the bacon and eggs version for breakfast is surprisingly good).
Can't see myself joining you anytime soon, but my spirit's with you.
Have a good one.