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Sending you a big hug @Mr Crudley . Sorry to hear the sad news.
If you opened her eyes to the wonders of Taiwanese food... that is the very height of filial peity right there.Thank you @AllRB
It was only as matter of time unfortunately but I did all that I could and she seemed as comfortable as she could be in the end. She had a good run and did not want to have stay longer with failing health. Many thanks to you all for your kind words.![]()
If you opened her eyes to the wonders of Taiwanese food... that is the very height of filial peity right there.
No parent could ask for more from their child. Mmmm boba....I can honestly say that Mum was queuing up for all sorts of Taiwanese influenced food here.
She ate pretty well and never seemed able to totally fill that cavernous appetite.
Big Hugs @Mr Crudley It's tough when anyone you care about dies. Even tougher when it's your Mum.Got a CoD. Unfortunately Mum passed away yesterday so this does help to clear my mind a little bit.
Some oddness in the past day with the cat of no shame deciding yesterday to sleep on Mum's bed, the precision tyre spearing and my trusty bike-o-meter only plotted a 1/3 of the trail today before just stopping.
Condolences and hugs mateGot a CoD. Unfortunately Mum passed away yesterday so this does help to clear my mind a little bit.
Some oddness in the past day with the cat of no shame deciding yesterday to sleep on Mum's bed, the precision tyre spearing and my trusty bike-o-meter only plotted a 1/3 of the trail today before just stopping.
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Good outlook @Mr Crudley and kudos on maintaining that mindset given the circumstances.Thank you all for your kindness. Most appreciated. I think best to look at the brighter side and also value the time we all have left here.
Bearing that in mind I'm at Wylde now at the unfashionable north-east corner. See two other punters despite the carpark being packed. The Pinoy gents are all in today too.
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Big Hugs @Mr Crudley It's tough when anyone you care about dies. Even tougher when it's your Mum.
Whatever happens over the next few months, and indeed years, please be kind to yourself, and you can let yourself feel all the emotions that come up, and sit with them, don't block them out, you can let go of them when it feels right. It will take as long as it takes. It's no-one else's business to tell you how long that's going to take, or how you are 'supposed' to be feeling. even me.
100%Thank you @ForkinGreat I think seeing her decline slowly over the past year and them more sharply recently has made it bit easier to process, opposed to being their one day and gone the next. She had a good run right up to the past 2 months and for that then I have to be thankful. You can only hope for any loved to go without loss of dignity and without much pain. A friend mentioned to me that this is the award for living a good life without having to be on daily meds or having physical problems which does ring true.
Saying that, I also don't see any reason not to indulge in things that I enjoy right now hence my recent bike binge. Not like I'm hitting the can's but just setting the alarm early for a CoD seems to work for me and makes everything a bit better. I try to avoid being a head in my hands 'woe is me person' but not always that great at it. The little things help. I may even set the alarm tomorrow morning since CoD's don't do themselves.![]()
Good outlook @Mr Crudley and kudos on maintaining that mindset given the circumstances.
Those purple 5010's are a thing of beauty. I have a little pang of jealousy every time you post a picture of yours (please don't stop though!). If they'd had proportional chainstays those few years earlier I'd have one in my stable 100%.
PS: Pumpkin lasagna is damn tasty, you're making me hungry! A long overdue discovery.
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just out of curiosity... is that pumpkin lasagna one of many cooked meals currently occupying your fridge? The 'gathering of the casseroles' sometimes seems to be a thing after the passing of a loved one.