Friend just bought a new Merida Silex on the weekend. He's always been a Lycra clad roadie so it's a moderate change of direction for him.
Anyway we went for a 15k ride this morning. I went on my trusty hardtail. He's trying to convert me to buying on so we swapped bikes on the local gravel ring route. After 15 minutes I was happy to get back on the mountain bike.
The gravel bike is faster and more agile but the vibration and knocks through the hoods gets annoying fast. The brakes, although good for a dropbar at still feel inferior to the basic Shimano hydraulics on my MTB. The hardtail felt like it can stop in a instant in an emergency. The gravel bike still felt slow. It's new so probably not beded in yet.